by Tom | Mar 15, 2026 | Blog
One of the most common concerns parents have as they approach divorce and separation is this: “What should we tell the kids, and how should we tell them?” Telling your children that you are separating or getting divorced can cause enormous feelings of guilt and... 
by Tom | Feb 15, 2026 | Blog
You’ve made one of the hardest decisions of your life. You tried to tough it out, tried to make the best of it, even did some counseling to see if some extra help would solve the problem(s). You wanted to keep the family together. Failure was not an option. When you... 
by Tom | Jan 15, 2026 | Blog
Even when both parents want what’s best for their children, emotions run high, communication can break down, and disagreements can feel impossible to resolve. That’s where Parent Coordination and Parent Facilitation come in — two processes designed to help parents... 
by Tom | Dec 15, 2025 | Blog
When we’re calm, confident, and regulated, most of us communicate pretty effectively. But when we’re tired, hurt, overwhelmed, or feeling threatened, our communication often shifts—sometimes in ways we don’t even realize. This comes up frequently during divorce and... 
by Tom | Nov 15, 2025 | Blog
When it comes time to begin building out your parenting plan, the possible combinations of choices are literally endless. Here are just some of the topics that you’ll need to discuss and agree upon: Parenting time ratios – 50/50? 60/40? Parenting...